Liar! Liar! How To Spot When A Candidate (Or Employee) Is Lying
It’s no great shock to see statistics about the prevalence of lying on résumés – one recent survey pegged it at 66% and another survey’s findings put it at 78%! But what about lying in job interviews? Those numbers look to be even higher. A whopping 81% of participants in a study written up in the Journal of Applied Social Psychology lied during what they thought was a job interview. The average was 2 lies per 15 minutes of interviewing.
So what is everybody lying about and what can you do?
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Spotting Lies On Résumés:
According to the AOL Jobs survey the most often items lied about on résumés are current salary (40%), followed by inaccurate or misleading job titles and descriptions (33%), altering employment dates (29%), falsifying references (27%), and listing fraudulent college degrees (21%).
You may not really care if someone is inflating a current salary if the person’s salary requirements fit within your range for the position. But with salespeople, this becomes more important and a bit trickier to figure out if someone is giving you an accurate number. Want to know for sure? Ask for a copy of the candidate’s previous year’s W-2.
Misleading job titles and description as well as altering employment dates, can be ferreted out by calling the candidate’s previous employers. Even if a company won’t answer specific questions, they will almost always verify dates of employment and titles. As for fake college degrees, any company that performs background checks (and there are dozens of online companies that offer these services starting at $15) can verify education. Maybe you are interviewing people for a job where you don’t care if someone has a college degree – but you might want to know if the person is lying about having one.
Falsifying references is probably the hardest of all of these to detect. Candidates who do this, are counting on managers not calling all (or any) of their references, and if so, not asking too many specific questions. If you are not calling a candidate’s previous employers AND references, you are taking a HUGE gamble. (Click here for how to do effective Reference Checking)
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Spotting Lies In Interviews (And Other Situations):
Research shows that most of us are terrible at detecting whether or not someone is lying to us. We tend to take things people say at “face value” (you know, “innocent until proven guilty”). The book, Spy The Lie written by three former CIA officers, offers some terrific insight on how to detect if someone isn’t telling you the truth.
One key, the authors say, is really listening intently so that you can pick up on verbal clues. Just spotting one of these verbal clues may not indicate anything, but if you detect a pattern or several of these behaviors – well you may have a Liar, Liar, Pants On Fire! For example, not giving you a direct answer to a question may indicate that a person is trying to think up an answer and is stalling or trying to distract you by re-routing the focus of your question.
Liars may try to skirt the truth and provide too much information to create a “halo” effect in order to skew your perception of them. Over complimenting you or being overly polite (“You look lovely today Mrs. Cleaver”) can indicate the person is trying to ingratiate himself because the more you like someone the more likely you are to believe him.
There also is something that psychologists call “dressing up the lie” which is when someone starts talking about religion or God. The authors say examples of this are phrases such as “I swear to God” or “As God is my witness,” which could indicate the person is “dressing up the lie.”
If someone is lying you might detect it in how the person responds to you when denying something. If you ask, “Did you do X?” A straight forward “no” is usually the honest person’s answer. If the person responds with a non-answer such as “Why would you think that?” or “I didn’t do anything,” the authors say that this is often a way for the person to psychologically avoid admitting to himself he is lying.
In interview situations, I tell managers to avoid typical interview questions where a person can have a rehearsed answer. Ask behavioral interview questions that require specific examples of situations where the person demonstrated the skill or behavior in which you are interested. Good answers will be very specific, not generalizations. When you ask a question be wary of qualified answers such as “most of the time”, “I try”, “for the most part”.
What about non-verbal behaviors? The authors say there are nonverbal cues that can indicate someone is being less that truthful. When watching for these, only consider the cues relevant if they happen in direct response to a question.
For example, if in answering a question the person touches her face, licks his lips, or pulls on her ears, that can indicate the person isn’t being truthful. Lying can trigger a person’s natural flight or fight response which makes blood rush to these areas and make the person itch or have a sensation of being cold.
Another interesting non-verbal that the authors point out is something called “moving anchor points.” Anchor points are what keep a person in a particular spot. If someone is standing then the feet are his anchor point. If someone is sitting in a chair then the buttocks are the anchor point. If a person begins shifting his or her anchor points while answering a question, that can be a sign of the person lying. Also, watch for signs of grooming. This could be adjusting an article of clothing, smoothing their hair or even straightening out the area right around the person.
Someone being deceitful might cover his mouth or eyes or even close her eyes while answering your question. This can mean that on a subconscious level the person doesn’t want to see your reaction to the lie. If the person nods “yes” while saying “no” or shakes his head side to side while saying “yes” that’s called a disconnect, and can be an indication of deception.
I’m going to let Mark Twain have the last words about this topic as he summed it up brilliantly when he said, “If you tell the truth, you don’t have to remember anything.”



































































2. What do you think? By saying this, you are telling the salesperson that you value her opinion and want input. You are opening the door to a collaborative relationship. Asking for other’s opinions show you respect their knowledge and expertise. It doesn’t mean you have to agree with everything suggested, but it tells you where the salesperson’s head is at on a particular issue and will help you incorporate that into your decisions. Once you know what the salesperson is thinking you can steer the conversation with phrase #3…
4. How can I help? So many times salespeople feel that they are fighting an uphill battle within their own companies. Battling with paperwork, bureaucracy, and other departments often makes it seem that they are at cross purposes with some of their co-workers. And that’s just inside the company. Now add on all the obstacles they have to overcome with clients. Salespeople need to feel like their sales manager will move walls for them and do whatever she can to help make that sale happen. Just simply saying, “How can I help you” is powerful. You are telling the salesperson you understand the situation and validating the frustration many salespeople feel.
7. I don’t know. These are hard words for most managers to say. It seems so counter-intuitive to say, “I don’t know” and think that a salesperson will respect us MORE for saying it. But it’s true. It’s ok not to have all the answers. In fact, some of the best, most creative solutions come from not knowing an answer and seeking out information. A close relative to this phrase is “Let me think about that.” Salespeople are persuasive and usually want an answer or decision from you immediately. And certainly there are many times when a quick decision is warranted. But don’t fall into the trap of thinking that everything has to be decided this minute. Sometimes, a little reflection or time to seek out additional information is what elevates someone to being a leader and not only a manager.
9. Let me play Devil’s Advocate for a moment. This is a terrific way to give feedback to a salesperson when you want to show her another way something might be handled. It allows you to demonstrate the flaws in a plan, but in a de-personalized way. Rather than telling the salesperson, “I think you should do xyz,” you are simply pointing out what “others” might object to or say.
10. Thank you. Yes, it’s simple. So easy, right? Maybe. But probably the most common complaint I’ve heard from salespeople over the years is a variation on, “My sales manager didn’t appreciate me.” Saying “thank you” is recognition of the work a salesperson is doing. It shows the salesperson you are engaged, you noticed, and you appreciate it.
enjoying their job. While the survey was not done only with salespeople, I have to think, given the social nature of most salespeople, that this would be a key factor among them as well. Additionally the study found that only 55% thought money was the most important thing. (Ok, that percentage might not be as high among salespeople!) I think this survey’s findings* on the importance of having a connection with your co-workers, further underscores the need for every newly hired salesperson to have a sales “buddy” or what I like to call a “Sales Pal.”
Need more convincing? 87% of the top 100 training programs used a mentoring/buddy system as part of their onboarding for new hires.**
A Sales Pal is someone who takes on the role of a “player/coach” with your new hire. The Sales Pal is there as a resource and peer adviser. A Sales Pal should be a superior performer (not necessarily someone who has been there the longest) and have good interpersonal skills and a desire to coach and help others.
The Sales Pal should be someone that the new hire can easily relate to and can trust completely. One of the purposes of this role is to create an informal environment in which the employee can ask and receive information about the ins and outs of how things work in your department and in your company. These may be questions that the new hire would be hesitant to ask you, because you are the boss. Besides, what if it’s a question about how to best handle you?!
Provide the Sales Pal with any tools that might be needed to be effective. Go over with the Sales Pal what your expectations are for how this person will help the new hire and how you envision the person maximizing the relationship. Give pointers on coaching and effective communication skills. You should monitor how things are going periodically. Check in with both the new hire and the Sales Pal to get input from each on the process. If it is not working, or not a good fit, consider a change to someone different. You can always position it as you want to expose the new hire to different types of successful sellers.

My Manager Was A Control Freak – One of the top reasons salespeople are drawn to sales in the first place is the opportunity to work independently and feel they have control over their business. They are entrepreneurial and look at sales as running their own small business operation. If they feel their manager is watching every move they make, it feels insulting and implies you don’t trust them. Holding people accountable? Absolutely. But that does not mean micro-managing. Micro-management just does not work with top performing salespeople.
My Manager Didn’t Appreciate Me – Sound egotistical? Maybe, but a strong ego drive is crucial to successful selling so why are so many sales managers surprised that their salespeople need ego stroking? Recognition and praise are critical components to managing people successfully but I think this is particularly important with salespeople who deal with far more rejection than successes. They need to know their manager understands what they face each day, and appreciates it. Sure praising a great sale is good – but that is expected. Praise and recognition for other aspects of the job like creating a great presentation, helping the client achieve an objective, developing strong client relationships, even getting paperwork in on time – now that, a salesperson will remember. Keeping a salesperson engaged and motivated is paramount and is a direct indicator of how long that person will be with you, and more important – how effective!
My Manager Played Favorites – Sure this might sound a little like “teacher’s pet” finger pointing, but perception is reality. Salespeople do tend to be hyper-alert to whether or not they are on a level playing field with their fellow sellers. I think this is because salespeople are usually quite competitive by nature. And, wouldn’t you be frustrated if you thought the person(s) you are competing against had an unfair advantage over you?
manager who is a “credit hog” and takes the credit for a salesperson’s success; the egotistical sales manager who is all about being “the boss” – you know the type, they refer to the sales team as “MY sales team”; and the sales manager who positions everything to upper management in a way that makes him or her look like the hero. When coaching new sales managers I tell them if you shine the spotlight on yourself you’ll soon be playing to an empty house, shine the spotlight on the achievements of your salespeople and they will make you a star.
My Manager Was A Liar – This one is simple to avoid. Don’t make promises unless you are 100% sure you can keep them. And if you make a promise, back it up 100%. Salespeople are expert at nailing people down and getting an answer. It’s called closing! As a sales manager, you are spinning a lot of plates and it is easy to give a quick “yes” to get something resolved quickly. But that can come back to haunt you and cause problems later if you can’t deliver. It’s better to say, “I’m not sure” and set a time to revisit the issue than to be seen by your salespeople as someone who doesn’t live up to his commitments.
Compensation – When a salesperson leaves because of money (although numerous research studies have shown that this is RARELY the top reason a salesperson quits) it is usually because he or she feels they are being stifled or “capped” on their income potential. Most salespeople are motivated by the concept of “the harder I work, the more I sell, the more money I make.” If that is taken away (whether it is perception or in reality) it can severely de-motivate the salesperson.
they are working with sub-par sellers. Quite simply, talented people want to work with talented people. If a salesperson feels that they are surrounded by other salespeople who are not as motivated to achieve, the salesperson starts to wonder, “Why am I here?” Top salespeople are energized by other successful salespeople because they like to measure their success against what their co-workers have achieved. It doesn’t feel like a win if you are Michael Jordan and you slam dunk on a high school kid.
Lack of Tools, Training, or Leadership – It is important to salespeople that they work in a culture where they feel the company is investing in them. This means having the tools and support they need to be effective salespeople. And, that includes having an 






One of the main reasons employees either leave or are a success in an organization is a direct result of their relationship with their manager. “In the end, turnover is mostly a manager issue,” Gallup wrote in its survey findings.




